People are divided into 2 types: those who do everything in advance and those who rush at the last moment.

What type are you?

1. cost savings;
2. purchases are made thoughtfully, good quality and only necessary ones;
3. there is an opportunity to think carefully about your evening dress, makeup, and hairstyle;
4. choose gifts correctly and competently, create a menu and rehearse an entertainment program;
5. lack of rush, queues and wasted nerves.

Perhaps these 5 “pros” will seem funny to you, then remember last year. How did you buy and choose gifts? How did you create the menu and prepare the dishes? Have you been shopping for things you need to celebrate the New Year and decorating your home?

If everything went according to a clear schedule or you did not panic, and you got a lot of pleasure from preparing for the New Year, then you can continue to do everything the same as last year, otherwise we recommend that you reconsider your attitude towards preparing for the New Year holidays.

Where to start preparing for the new year?

Make a plan of things to do and set dates when you need to finish them. To do this, divide all preparation into small blocks. The most important matters that require quick resolution come first.

Your plan might look like this:

1. finish home renovations (glue up wallpaper, install a lamp, change linoleum...);
2. your appearance (extend nails, eyelashes, become slimmer, dye your hair, get a haircut);
3. we sew a children's suit;
4. menu, selecting dishes and preparing a shopping list;
5. gifts for loved ones;
6. decorate the house;
7. entertainment in New Year's Eve;
8. unfinished business.

It is best to write on a piece of paper and number it, try to write in such a way that it is clear and understandable to you what needs to be done. Because if you save words, after a few days you may not remember what these abbreviations mean.

If there is not enough space on one side of the A4 format, you should not turn the sheet over and write there, it is better to take the other one so that all unfinished tasks are visible.

Why do we start preparing in advance?

1. If you decide to make a gift, or part of it, with your own hands, then rushing is not the best help.

2. Even thinking about a purchase takes time. If there are no specific ideas, then we find out what the person would like to receive as a gift, without enough time this procedure difficult to accomplish.

3. Purchase of garlands, Christmas tree decorations, toys do not require much time, and at the same time the day before New Year's holidays prices will rapidly creep up, and queues will take a lot of nerves and energy.

All this, together with other purchases, will force you to spend long hours in stores on the eve of the New Year.

Outputs 2:

1. Start purchasing Christmas tree supplies now, little by little.

2. Make purchases in online stores, you will have time for delivery.

We are preparing your New Year's toilet now

If you are happy with your figure and appearance in general, then just choose a dress that suits you and will make you look like a queen.

It should be noted that many companies and organizations celebrate the New Year on December 20th; if your plans include attending such an event, then your dress should be ready in advance.

If you want to get your figure in better shape and wear a more revealing or frankly stunning dress, then the remaining time is enough for this.

Sign up for a fitness center and start attending workouts, combining them with a diet that excludes foods that are harmful to your figure.

Hairstyle, makeup, manicure

For ladies who want to get their hair done by a hairdresser, now is the time to contact him so as not to be left without a hairstyle.

If you decide to radically change your appearance, change your hair color or make short haircut After luxurious curls, it’s time to hold a rehearsal.

If you are dissatisfied with the results of such changes, you will have time to return to your previous color, hairstyle, bangs length...

Baby suit

Do you want your baby to amaze everyone on New Year's Eve or at a party? It's time to start looking for ideas for a New Year's costume.

Think about what character your baby adores, and let him have such a costume. Sometimes this is difficult to implement, for example, your baby wants to be a train from Romashkovo. But you have time to figure out how to do it.

You can buy a ready-made costume, but most often the store may not have your favorite character. But manufacturing takes time, then it’s time to start!

Hello everyone! It's coming soon main holiday of the year. And it needs to be taken very seriously. In order for it to go well and cheerfully, without any oddities or uncomfortable situations, you need a plan for preparing for the New Year. And today I will give you clear and precise advice on how to plan a holiday so that everything goes smoothly. top level.

Last years I took this issue very seriously. From December 1st the house begins to move, fuss and bustle. But this process gives me great pleasure. Prev festive mood and the feeling of something unusual does not leave me for a minute. I can confidently say that this time is the best of the year.

I involve the whole family in preparing for the New Year. Children especially like this. They enjoy decorating the house, the Christmas tree, making crafts, and drawing Father Frost and the Snow Maiden. Oh, how I wish this time would never end!

I was daydreaming about something! Let's get straight to the point. In order to New Year has become a pleasant memory for you and your guests, you need to prepare for this event in advance, clearly think through your steps. Cooking dishes, setting the table, feeding guests is only a small part of the preparation. Taking everything into account is not an easy task, and only organized people can do it. Well, now I’ll tell you how to do this...

Preparing for the New Year without stress

“Prepare your sleigh in the summer” is the main principle of successful events. You need to start planning in advance, at least a month in advance. This time is enough for everything. Bring a pen and notepad. Write down everything that comes to mind, ideas and thoughts on organizing the New Year. It happens that some little thing spoils the mood. This shouldn't happen if you really take your preparation seriously.

And that’s why I invite you to take part in the preparation marathon for the NEW YEAR. This very joyful event should not be overshadowed by everyday troubles. To this end, I have prepared YOU step-by-step instructions, from which you will learn how to slowly but surely, over the course of a month, plan perhaps the most important holiday of the year. This time of miracles and fulfillment of desires should be remembered for a long time.

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Sometimes impossible tasks fall on the shoulders of the housewife. But we, women, also want to relax, rejoice and not miss a single important detail in the lives of your loved ones. I think each of us is looking forward to the New Year with special trepidation. On this night, grievances are forgiven, new plans are made, life begins with a new leaf. And in order for all the pre-holiday chores to go perfectly, without any oddities or unpleasant hassles, you just need to trust me and complete the marathon of preparation for the New Year at home.

What form will the marathon take?

Everything is very simple. Add this page to your browser bookmarks and look at it from time to time, complete tasks, and plan a holiday. As a gift, I am giving you a journal that will help you go through all the steps and not forget anything. It is best to print the forms on a printer, but if you do not have the opportunity to do this, just draw simple tables using a ruler and pencil on an A4 sheet. If desired, they can be decorated with colored markers or pens. You just have to follow the advice, supplementing them, taking into account your desires and capabilities.

Festive marathon: “Preparing for the New Year: week one.”

The marathon of preparation for the New Year has begun. I really can’t wait to get started on the pleasant chores. I hope you do too! I am very glad that you decided to participate in such an event with me. It will be fun, I promise you! Thanks to step by step instructions, you will clearly know what to do, and the holidays will become a pleasant memory for you. And so, let's get started... The first 6-7 days of the marathon will be devoted entirely to planning. This is very important stage. It should not be missed under any circumstances. Everything will depend on how well you plan all the moments. Every little thing, every detail simply must be worked out. You can complete all the weekly tasks that are here in a day or two, or you can distribute them across the days of the week. The main thing is that THEY ALL BE COMPLETED.

1. The first thing you need to do is print out your New Year's Preparation Journal. I made the tables as simple as possible, in black and white, without any frills. You can add colors yourself and decorate it to your liking. You can download it from the link.
2. Consult with your husband, relatives, children, how and where you will celebrate the New Year, how many guests you plan to invite, whether there will be small children. Will you have people staying overnight, where will you accommodate them? Where are you going to set the table?
3. Now it wouldn't hurt to take care of the house. It should be clean, orderly and organized as much as possible. Still, you need to enter the New Year without an extra unnecessary burden in the form of dirt and junk. Create a detailed house cleaning schedule for the month. Use the Cleaning Plan form. There are 3 columns there. In the first one, write down the most important things that must be done without fail. In the second column, there are things that you want to do, and in the third column, devote as much as possible to the plan. Walk through each room with a piece of paper and write down everything you need to do in three columns. You don’t just need to take into account what you do every day and weekly, for example, wash clothes, dust, pay attention to global problems, for example, clean out the closet, sort out the kitchen set, and so on. Don’t put too much strain on yourself; you should have some strength left for other pleasant pre-holiday chores. From now on, spend 10-15 minutes every day to put your home in order.
4. Clearly plan your holiday budget. How much are you willing to spend on gifts, menus, home decorations, costumes and looks? Follow your spending plan strictly. Required amount put the money in an envelope immediately so that there is no temptation to use it. Fill out the “Budget” form.
5. Based on your budget, make a list of gifts and cards. Use the New Year's organizer form. Write a list of people who need to be congratulated by phone, email or social media. networks. Start filling out your shopping list (form).
6. Carefully consider your image, the image of your husband and children. Make an appointment at the beauty salon in advance. If you are getting ready at home, then choose a hairstyle, jewelry, shoes, and manicure option. Consult with your children and husband how they would like to dress for the New Year. Fill out the appropriate form and shopping list.
7. Let's move on to one of the most important issues - the menu. Depending on who you will celebrate the holiday with, create a detailed menu. Take into account all the nuances. What dishes will you prepare for first, second, salads, drinks, snacks, sandwiches? What will you need for this besides products, for example, foil, a sleeve, canapé sticks, napkins, and so on? Fill out the “Holiday Menu” forms, continue to fill out the grocery shopping list.
8. Think about how you will decorate your home. What do you have for this, what will you do yourself or with your children, what do you need to buy. Fill out the “Home Decorations” form and include the necessary purchases in the list. Don’t forget to devote 10-15 minutes to cleaning during the week according to your schedule.

Festive marathon: “Preparing for the New Year: week two.”

A week of planning has passed. For me personally, this time is the most difficult of the entire month-long preparation for the New Year. You need to take into account every little detail in order to later bring it to life and allocate time so that... But I think everyone coped with this task. If you have any questions, write to me by email, don’t hesitate, I will try to help you. At first, when I sketched out the plan for the marathon, I thought of devoting each week to a separate area. For example, the first week is for planning, the second is for gifts and menus, the third is for self-care, and the fourth is for home. But after thinking about it, I decided that this was a bad idea. So don't be alarmed if you see completely different weekly assignments. This is the best method and gives maximum results. Moreover, it was tested by me personally last year. And so, these are the tasks awaiting you this week.

1. We continue to spend 10-15 minutes a day cleaning the house according to the plan.
2. We are slowly starting to buy gifts. I suggest purchasing 1/3 of the entire part. If possible, more can be done. Be sure to check your holiday budget. Remember that New Year is a very expensive event. Many of the gifts can be made with your own hands.
3. It's time to make home decorations. If you decide that you will buy them, then buy them.
4. Call your hairdresser and cosmetologist, make an appointment for yourself, your husband and children in advance. IN last days of the passing year, all schedules will be full. And there is no guarantee that you will be lucky.
5. This week we will be compiling . On New Year's Eve we should look perfect. Make a detailed schedule of treatments, for example, on which days you will exercise, do hair masks, facials, foot baths, and so on. Pull yourself together and start eating right. In three weeks you can lose a couple of kilograms, I guarantee you.
6. Make a holiday program. Make a selection of music and films. If children will be present, think about how they will be entertained. It might be worth coming up with a couple of competitions with prizes. Don't forget to prepare a congratulatory speech for your guests.
7. It happens that plans change. In this case, make amendments, revise earlier decisions made, perhaps you overlooked something. And be sure to consult with your loved ones.

Festive marathon: “Preparing for the New Year: week three.”

Exactly half of our New Year's marathon has passed! How is it going? How are you feeling? Is everything working out? You have already done quite a lot, only a little remains. The main thing is not to stop, but go forward, completing all tasks. There will be quite a few of them this week.

1. Spend 10-15 minutes every day cleaning your home.
2. Follow your self-care schedule.
3. Analyze well New Year's menu. Some adjustments may need to be made. According to the list, buy those products that are stored for a long time (canned food, frozen food, meat, etc.).
4. This week it's time to decorate the house. After all, everything is ready for this. Put up a Christmas tree and decorate it.
5. Inspect the cutlery for serving the holiday table. If something is missing, then buy more (napkins, tablecloths, decor, spoons, forks, glasses, plates).
6. If you will have overnight guests, consider having a sleeping area where you can accommodate them for the night. Prepare bed linen and towels, as well as a change of clothes (if needed) in advance.
7. Prepare the clothes you will wear for the New Year, as well as the clothes of your husband and children. Don't forget about jewelry and shoes. Iron everything and hang it on a hanger.
8. This week, buy or make yourself another 1/3 of the gifts or all the remaining ones.

Festive marathon: “Preparing for the New Year: the finish line.”

Hurray, girls there are only a few left! We've worked hard and it's time to relax! Don't worry, we can do everything. There will be no surprises or oddities. You guys are great!

In a few days we will be sitting at festive table in the circle of friends and relatives. the last week the most difficult. There is a lot of work to be done. Just what does it cost to prepare all the dishes from the planned menu. But we are not afraid of anything! We're ready, right?

1. Check the serviceability of the camera and video camera, which will capture happy moments. Make sure there is enough space on your memory card for new material. Charge the batteries.
2. Pick one day and wash all your dirty clothes.
3. Buy all the remaining gifts on the list and pack them. Put them in one place and let them wait for the appointed hour.
4. Continue to take care of yourself and perform beauty treatments. I propose to write down the last 3 days before the New Year in detail. It is very important.

December 29th– check all the lists again, make amendments (if necessary) to the holiday program, congratulations, check the list New Year's affairs. Buy all the remaining ingredients for preparing New Year's menu dishes.

December 30th– dedicate a day to cleaning the house, there is no need to generalize, because you spent 15 minutes every day, and that is quite enough. Just remove all the scattered things, wipe off the dust, put everything in its place. By the way, these tasks are quite easy and can be entrusted to your husband and children, or to do all the work together. The only thing you need to pay attention to Special attention- toilet and bath. To prevent the next day from being torture for you, prepare some of the dishes on December 30, for example, salads, snacks, sandwiches. If you don’t have time for this, then at least just boil vegetables for salads, marinate meat, cut bread for sandwiches.

31th of December- the most important day. The to-do list on this day is not that long, but still...

• Prepare all dishes.
• Lay the table.
• Clean up the kitchen.
• Go to the shower, do your hair and change clothes. Dress my husband and children)))
• Check your New Year's to-do list.
• Praise yourself and say “What a great job I am!”

Conclusion

Well, our New Year's marathon is over. I am very grateful to you that you did not give up and reached the end with me. Happy and long-awaited hours of the New Year are ahead of us! The hours when we move to a new stage in our lives. In closing, I would like to wish you all the best, so that all your dreams come true and your goals are achieved! I love and kiss you all, but new meetings in the NEW YEAR!

The last days of the passing year - An incredibly exciting time for us women!

Isn't it true, my dears?

Especially for those who live a conscious life and strive to fill every step with joy, and every moment of their life with meaning.

And, of course, we want to do everything, not forget anything, cover everything around with our attention and... finish, complete, put in order, prepare, clean, free, harmonize in order to V good mood to celebrate the long-awaited New Year with its new energies, new opportunities, realization of our cherished desires and pleasant surprises!

From my own experience, I know that the pleasant pre-New Year chores and holiday bustle can also be accompanied by not very pleasant sensations. When you have a mess in your head, you don’t know what to grab onto, what to do first and what to do later, what to do today and what to do tomorrow.

All this is accompanied by internal dissatisfaction, a feeling of lack of time, as well as irritation and fatigue.

As a result, we celebrate the New Year with a feeling of internal tension, incompleteness and cover up our load with noisy joy and fun, which we will have to return to as soon as the holidays are over.

But! All this can be avoided! And start a new stage of your life in a harmonious feminine state! Opening a new, clean and bright page in your life is easy, joyful and inspired!

With a feeling of calm and confidence, let go of everything old and on a magical New Year's Eve let in the miracle that is already ready to enter our lives!

We just need a little preparation. Free up space, energetically cleanse your feminine world and, with a feeling of deep joy and satisfaction, accept into your life everything we want!

It is for this purpose that I have prepared a plan for you that will help you complete the outgoing year correctly without unnecessary worry, and you will enter the New Year refreshed, light and free!

And this, in turn, of course, will entail in the coming year the fulfillment of all your desires and dreams, the right doors will open, the right people will come into life and the stars will converge in the right place at the right time! =)

The plan consists of three parts!

♡ Part 1. Spiritual and psychological

♡ Part 2. Creative and dynamic

♡ Part 3. Magically inspiring

So, before you start studying the plan, I want you to take note of a few recommendations!

a) The plan is not a dogmatic instruction that you must follow strictly! There are no strict rules or strict restrictions for a woman at all! This is just a supporting material, my personal experience, which will help you navigate! Feel free to add to it, at your creative discretion, everything that your soul specifically asks for!

b) Remember that your harmonious internal state is more important than achieving results and fulfilling any plan by 500%! Be merciful and kind to yourself my s fuck! The pleasure of the process is more valuable than the result itself. Any plan simply simplifies our task, streamlines our thought process, and calms us down. If this does not happen, then this is not a woman’s plan! In women's terms, pleasure and joy come first!

c) After you are completely familiar with the plan, write down on a piece of paper what you will take note of and implement. Let your personal plan be written down in your own hand and on your own piece of paper! So nicer and calmer! =)

So here's our plan! Let's get started!

Step 1 Cleansing of negativity
Analyze the past year month by month. A diary, if you keep one, or photographs will help you with this. Remember everything that you didn’t fully accept, all the situations that left a residue, disappointment, etc. Remember all the people who were in your life or entered your life in the past year. Thank them for their lessons, forgive them and internally let go of the situations associated with them that burden you.
The following practices will help you with this:
♡ Practice “Healing Letter”
On a piece of paper, write a letter to the person with whom you have an unfinished situation - resentment, misunderstanding, disappointment, etc. You write everything that comes to mind, pour out all your feelings and experiences onto paper. In this way, you defuse this situation by reliving it again, and it no longer has the same strong influence and does not draw energy onto you, your energy resource is released. After you write a letter, you can write yourself a response from the person you wrote to. In your answer, write everything that you would like to hear from him in response.
This practice can be done for relationships with departed people with whom you cannot communicate in real life. Or, for example, with those with whom contact has been lost, but a residue remains inside. Of course, if possible, then clarify all situations personally, with the person it concerns, this is much more effective. But there are situations in which we can independently and unilaterally perform the practice and it will also have a very good effect.

♡ Practice "Gratitude"
Write 10 (or more) thanks to the person with whom there is some kind of misunderstanding or alienation. For example, you feel that there is not enough warmth in some relationship, but you would like to improve it. Imagine how your gratitude envelops that person and you along with him in bright and pure energy, clearing the field of your relationship.

♡ Practice "Returning Balance"
If in some relationship you feel that you cannot go through a lesson or solve a problem with a certain person. This could be someone from the distant past or from your present. You feel dependence or guilt, or some other unpleasant feeling, and this lasts for a very long time, then you need to complete the energetic union with this person by mentally imagining how the energy strings that connect you are torn. You can add in words: “I’m taking everything that’s mine from you, I’m giving you what’s yours.” With love and gratitude, in the highest and best way."
In this way, you, again, release energy and in the future a person with whom you will solve your problems much easier and faster will come into your life. In the meantime, just free yourself and cleanse yourself so that it is easier to move forward and nothing interferes with your inner harmony.

Step 2 Debt recovery

It is necessary to repay all material and spiritual debts.
Material debts- it's not just money. These are books, any other people's things that are in your house. Be sure to take the time to contact their owners and return them before the New Year. Even if, for example, in your house there are things of your mother or sister, who, in fact, are not strangers to you, but still this also applies to their things. Especially if there are or were some unresolved problems between you.

For example, you have been dependent on your mother’s opinion for a long time, or there is an unresolved issue between you and your mother-in-law. The absence of their things in your home does not mean the absence of these people in your life and does not at all mean that you disdain them. It just means that you are independent and have integrity. this moment, and this is how you will enter the New Year. At the same time, your feelings for these people may be the warmest and most tender.

As for money, if there is no way to repay the debt, then imagine that this money that you received and which you cannot give back is credit of trust to you personally from this man! This is his disposition, benevolence, and it is very important, if there is a situation with debts, to perceive it this way. In a deeper sense, we can say that you do not trust the World so much that it gives you credit through people. In general, if there are situations with monetary debts, then you need to work on the topic of trust and open your heart. But this is the topic of other articles and my projects.

Spiritual debts- these are all unfinished “promises” and obligations. If you promised someone something and didn’t do it, took on an obligation and didn’t fulfill it, didn’t energetically accept someone’s noble gesture or gift, and you have a need inside you to give back, thank you, and so on, then you must definitely end such situations . How you do it is your choice. You can simply resolve the issue within yourself, mentally taking the necessary steps, or contact the person and voice what you are concerned about. It often happens that the person towards whom we feel an obligation has already forgotten about the existence of this duty, and it is only in our head. And these efforts that you will make to free yourself from spiritual debts will once again convince you that the sense of duty is a useless cockroach that lives in our heads and which is high time to drive it out!

Step 2 List of unfinished tasks

Write a list of all the unfinished tasks that you did not complete in the past year. This could be an unread book, an unfinished project, an unrealized plan or scenario in relation to someone or something.

Then divide this list into three parts.

The first part is those things that you will have time to complete and will complete this year.

The second part is those things that you leave unfinished, refuse to complete them and release them unfinished into oblivion! =)

And the third part is those things that you do not have time to complete this year and write them down in your plans for next year, with the desire to complete them.

Step 4 Results or conclusions about life

Write 5 main conclusions that you made about life in the past year (more than 5 are possible). These could be some lessons that you have learned, everything that life has taught you and thanks to which you have become even more holistic, happy and harmonious. Then, if you carry out this practice annually, all of your conclusions and results for each year can be put into your personal book of female wisdom and passed on to inheritance =) Or just read from time to time and realize the significance, the value of every step you take, every life you live year and feel the special meaning of your life and your mission in the female body.

For example, I started doing this practice last year and wrote 5 conclusions about life in my book of feminine wisdom. One of them was that you should never wait for happiness in the future, it either happens to you now, where you are and with the people who surround you, if you want it, or it never happens.

In the past year, I felt this very well several times and this phrase written in my diary became a kind of anchor that brought me to a feeling of satisfaction with the present and freed me from the illusion that happiness was waiting for me somewhere over the horizon!

Step 5 Return to the home of your soul

The goal of this practice is to tune into your personal rhythm, get out of all other energy structures and egregors that influence you and return to yourself as much as possible by the time of the transition from one year to another.
To do this, choose a ritual for yourself that returns you to a state of presence when you are not chasing the future or thinking about the past and do it every day until the very moment of welcoming the New Year. It can take from 5 minutes to 30-60 minutes, as you wish. For example, this year I chose for myself contemplation of clouds for 5-15 minutes, breathing practice for 15-20 minutes and the “Surya Namaskar” sun salutation complex. You can choose whatever you want. It could be some kind of handicraft, any kind of activity that brings you balance and peace. The main thing is that before you start, express your intention for a few seconds to return to yourself and your harmony and then start. This setup works very well and you will really feel the results if you do it for several days in a row and tune yourself before doing it.

You can include walking in your daily practice.
Walking can be called dynamic meditation, because when we walk, a certain rhythm arises and this helps us tune in to harmony, structure our thoughts, calm down, make a decision, resolve some kind of internal conflict. Walking triggers special processes in our psyche that help us to properly tune in to the current moment in life, without getting stuck in either the past or the future! You can visualize any process in walking, for example, that you are moving into a new stage of life and leaving the past behind.

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Step 1 Plan your New Year's activities

To prevent the pleasant pre-holiday bustle from turning into energy-sapping chaos, plan your pre-New Year's activities. You can write down what you will do and when you will do it day by day. For example, cleaning the house at such and such a time, decorating the Christmas tree at such and such a time, buying groceries and putting yourself in order on such and such a day, practices and your useful preparatory affairs also on certain days or at certain times.
And most importantly, let your plan be tailored to you, and not you to it! And as I already wrote, be sure to add such an important element as pleasure - this will help you remain in a feminine state and maintain inner harmony.

Step 2 Cleaning

The most natural and well-known, even “grandmother’s” method of bringing oneself into harmony is, of course, cleaning.
Cleaning and clearing all debris on the physical plane and putting in order the entire space that surrounds you.
Cleaning triggers internal processes that help you let go of the past. Everything that surrounds us is part of us at the energetic level, and if there is disorder, then this is reflected in our sense of self.
You need to tidy up not only your home, bag, wallet, but also your phone, computer, email inbox, and social media profiles.

Move aside the closet behind which dust has accumulated and wash it, burn unnecessary papers, ventilate all rooms, let sunlight into the house if the sun looks outside the window. After cleaning, you can light candles in the house, turn on beautiful music and launch the energy of creation.

Remove unnecessary people on social networks, unnecessary contacts on your phone, photos that do not correspond to your worldview now. For example, you haven’t eaten meat for a year, and there’s a photo of you with a barbecue and the like on social networks. Or some candid and provocative photos that no longer correspond to your lifestyle.

Pay special attention to your wardrobe, the things you wear (or no longer wear), and the household items that surround you.
Our things are powerful energy anchors that store energy memory and launch and hold us in certain states of the past that they correspond to. Therefore, if possible, get rid of everything unnecessary and obsolete on the physical plane and you will feel how much easier it has become to breathe, and even to live!!

Be sure to part with unnecessary cosmetics and personal care products.

And, as I wrote above, be sure to remove from your space and return things that do not belong to you.

Step 3 Skincare treatments for your loved one

Be sure to include daily skincare treatments for your loved one in your list of New Year's to-dos. It can be anything - massages, wraps, baths with aromatic oils, masks for the face, hair, legs, hands, and so on. So that you approach the New Year in the state of a blossoming and fragrant rose, and not an exhausted squirrel in a wheel, which on December 31 dropped into a beauty salon, externally put itself in order, but internally and energetically did not have time to be filled with a state of beauty and brilliance.

Step 4 Cleansing the body

Take care of cleansing your body from the inside. One of any available methods, but not radical. For example, a fasting day, cleansing the intestines, exercise or jogging to speed up the blood and breathing. Also drink enough water daily.

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Now that we have cleared the space to a greater extent, launched the necessary energies and are closer to the feminine harmonious sound, we need to add a little magic to sound even clearer at the harmonious frequency!

Step 1 Practice “Making a wish”

Take several sheets of paper and write down all, all, all of your desires and dreams that you want to come true in the coming year. There should be at least 50-70 of them, and preferably more. Be brave! Don’t stop them with phrases like “I can’t do it”, “This is not for me”, “This is too “cool” and impossible.” Be prepared for miracles and write whatever you want!
Then you need to check your desires and dreams for truth! What does it mean? This means understanding whether this is your desire or someone else’s, for example, your mother or husband.
Take the sheet of wishes in one hand, place the other hand on your heart and start reading each wish out loud one by one! Read your first wish, close your eyes and watch your body’s reaction. What do you feel? If there is joy, inspiration, a slight tickle, if you see before your eyes some beautiful and live picture, warmth spreads throughout the body, something stirs in the area of ​​the heart, then your wish! If the body is silent, the imagination does not lead anywhere beyond the read line, there is no movement and inside it is as if there is a stupor, silence, dullness, or suddenly a portrait appears before the eyes loved one(who may be the owner of this desire), then the desire is not yours, feel free to cross it off the list and move on to the next one! And do this with every desire!
Pay special attention to material desires; we women must be aware of them. Feminine nature material, from the word MOTHER! Highly spiritual women who neglect material things are very uncomfortable in the physical material world, and the world reminds them of this through illnesses, problems with money and men.
Once you have made a list of your true desires, put it in a secluded place until next year. Then, when you read them a year later, you will be pleasantly surprised!

Practice “Box of Wishes” (from Irishenka’s comment)

My beloved friend Irishka reminded me of this practice; she wanted to try it last year, but it didn’t work out. I will definitely try it this year and recommend it to you.

On December 31, spend the whole day preparing something and preparing for the holiday, write your wishes on small sticky notes throughout the day (prepare them in advance, a pen and any beautiful small box). You can decorate the box yourself, for example, paste it with foil and ribbons. And the whole day between tasks, dreaming and writing desires in the form of already fulfilled ones (absolutely everything from dresses to realizing oneself in something), all this without spending separate time, but entering the state of this desire, then fixed by the state here and now (by doing any chores around the house) - this anchors the states of the desired and prevents you from flying into the future. Place it under the Christmas tree and remove it after the holidays until next year. Then review your wishes in a year and thank them for what they fulfilled!

Choose any wish-making practice that suits you and create your new life!

By the way, an important addition about making wishes, which I did not mention, and you may not know about it! It is better to feel, to understand a true desire or not, to enter into a state of desire will help by writing it in the form of a fulfilled one!
For example, I want a new inspiring job that will make me happy, reveal my creative potential and bring material benefits. In the form of the fulfilled, you can write like this - “I rejoice and enjoy new job, which reveals my creative potential and brings material benefits!”

Step 2 Create a festive mood

♡ Dress up Christmas tree accompanied by appropriate holiday music and with the whole family.
♡ Decorate your windows with snowflakes that you cut out with your children.
♡ Make New Year's crafts with your children; if you don't have children, then be children yourself and do them!
♡ Take a walk through the evening city and admire its festive decorations.
♡ Go to holiday events with family and friends.
♡ Enjoy and leisurely go shopping and choose souvenirs, absorb the atmosphere of general pre-holiday trepidation.
♡ Write Greeting Cards to family and friends, with your own hand and with all your heart.
You can write a congratulation from Santa Claus and send it to your loved ones without a return address. For a couple of years in a row I practiced such wonderful congratulations. Imagine yourself as Grandfather Frost and write everything you would like to wish for this person. Children are very happy and sincerely believe in such letters. Even adults begin to believe in miracles. Such amazing stories I had these letters from Santa Claus. One letter saved my friend from deep sadness, because it arrived at the right moment and was noticed by her completely by accident, another made one girl believe in Santa Claus again after her parents were declassified in the performance of the duties of a magical old man. Another of the letters made an adult friend feel like a child and was moved to tears, because I accidentally called her by name in the letter as only one person, dear and dear to her heart, called her.
In general, all participants in the process received a huge amount of joy and love! Moreover, the stories with guessing who this mysterious Santa Claus was were also the most amazing! Since my goal was not to receive gratitude for this congratulation, but it still found me, through incredible situations in which those being congratulated suddenly guessed who it could be!))) Some, of course, guessed right away!)) In general, it's a whole New Year's adventure for all participants in the process. The pleasure is incredible!)

♡ Read books on New Year's themes, watch movies. It’s especially cool to read fairy tales with children and watch cartoons or fairy tales about the New Year.

♡ Hang a special toy on the tree that will symbolize the very best cherished wish. Maybe you make it yourself or suddenly see it in a store window.

♡ Create a New Year's menu taking into account the wishes of all family and friends who will be present at the New Year's table.

♡ Come up with a signature dish for New Year's table, which will symbolize in your understanding the coming year, and put all your feminine creative energy into it. Let everyone present at your celebration try this dish.

♡ Create an entertainment script for New Year's Eve. Besides watching holiday TV and eating delicious treats, there needs to be something else that brings your group together. This could be a round dance around the tree with a song or pulling New Year's wishes out of a magic hat. Yes, anything that will lift your spirits and cause joyful laughter and fun.

Step 3 Holiday outfit

I made this point separately so that it is noticeable!
Be sure to remember that you are, first of all, a woman and an elegant holiday dress is an integral attribute of a true woman who lives a conscious and spiritually rich life!
Take the time to buy a new outfit for New Year's Eve. As I wrote above, our things are anchors that preserve and hold energy, so if possible, the dress should be new, so that no energy from the past prevents you from entering a new future. As they say, in a new dress for the New Year!
Well, as a last resort, if you choose from existing outfits, then choose one in which you not only look good, but also which evokes pleasant memories and associations.

Step 4 Practice “Writing to the Universe”

This practice is best done a couple of days before the New Year.
Get some privacy and ask not to be disturbed for a while. Take a piece of paper and a pen, imagine the image of the one who created us all, the image of God or the infinite Universe, mentally connect with this energy and write everything that comes. Just relax and your pen will start writing on its own. Imagine that God or the Universe to whom you are writing also longs to communicate with you just like you. Communicate as with someone close to you, tell your deepest thoughts and secrets, thank, ask for support, explain something, trust, confess, express your love and gratitude for what you are, for everything you have what you have and what you don't yet have. If there are tears, do not be alarmed, these are tears of cleansing. After you write everything down, sit in silence for a while, don’t rush to go somewhere right away. Keep this letter in a safe place.

And most importantly, remember the goal of this whole plan is to put yourself in a harmonious state in order to launch new energies into your space! Enjoy the creative process in your life! Love yourself and what you do! Appreciate every day you live and your experience in this day! Our days make up our years and our lives!

♡ ♡ ♡

I sincerely congratulate you on the upcoming New Year!
And I wish you a pleasant preparation!
With Love, Yulia Belikova

In the New Year's race, it is important to distribute efforts correctly. We hope our help will come in handy! We give this plan to you

Get rid of chaos

By the end of the year, we are “drowning” in a huge number of things that require our attention. And the awareness of this is often more burdensome than their implementation itself. But let’s figure it out: what exactly of all your hang-ups do you need to do now? Reconsider all these “shoulds”, but “don’ts”. Be honest with yourself, since you have been delaying these matters for so long, maybe they are not so important? Or are you just trying to force yourself to do something that goes against your desires and principles? On the eve of the New Year, it's time to throw away all this “garbage”: decide what is really important and what is just pretending to be so.

Test yourself for procrastination and fight it

Some people don’t even realize that they are procrastinating (it happens!). Are you absolutely sure that you are sinless in this area? Try setting aside a whole day to track doing nothing. Be alert and record everything you do. Some of you are in for an unpleasant discovery. So, for example, it turns out that “now I’ll quickly look at my email” turns into three hours of watching funny videos. This needs to be dealt with: on our website there is also information on how to deal with procrastination.

Get ready for every day

Planning is yours best friend and assistant. Living without guidelines and reminders, a clear structure and vision of the day, week, month, year, etc. - very hard. So why are you complicating your life? It's not hard or boring, just get started and you will see positive changes very soon! If it’s really difficult to start, look at our personal effectiveness guides. There's a lot of useful stuff there - it's time to explore.

Start a new healthy habit

Starting a new healthy habit in the last month of the year is a good start for yourself in the new year. Especially if you are planning some major changes in your life. Show yourself what you can do! Taking small steps is a good guarantee of sustainable success. For example, you plan to lose a certain amount of kilograms in the new year, then start preparing the ground for implementation in December. First, get into the habit of replacing your portion of junk food with vegetables. You will see for yourself what magic will happen and how much it will charge you for achievements.

Clear your space

“Time for spring cleaning!” - the December signal in the brain is triggered. Yes, yes, it's time. It’s stupid to delay this. We all know how nice it is to live in a clean and tidy space. So give yourself this gift!

End what's bothering you

December - best time bring order not only in the house, but also in affairs, surroundings and your information field. Don't regret the past. If you have been burdened by any relationship, business or subscription for a long time, “cut off” them. This can be very difficult (with people), but for your own sake better life this should have been done a long time ago, don’t you agree? It's like with spring cleaning, if you don’t throw away trash, then very soon your whole life will be “clogged” with random people, unclear responsibilities, exhausting correspondence on social networks with unknown people and annoying email subscriptions. Do not do it this way!

Meet new people

Now you’ve ended the old connections that were devastating you, but what next? And then you need new acquaintances with a plus sign. And now, during the New Year's period, when people become kinder and more naive, this is the best time to easily start useful acquaintances. Take advantage of this great chance. By the way, we have a networking session from Oksana Kukharchuk especially for you, join us!

Don't forget about your health

December is a month of bustle, but is your health really something that can be put off until spring from time to time? Decide for yourself, but we strongly advise you to specifically allocate space in your schedule for sports and think through a healthy menu in advance.

Make a reading plan and follow it

You see those books that lie on the desktop or gather dust on the nightstand next to your bed. Maybe it's time to master them? What do you have there? Something useful or fashionable and empty? Sit down and decide what you absolutely need to read in December. Some people need it vitally New Year's tales at this time of year, and someone urgently needs to learn how to become more tolerant of others, etc. In a word - act according to plan!

Get ready for the holidays

It's better not to stage a holiday blitzkrieg. Decide in advance how you want to spend the holiday, what you will give, what the New Year's menu will be, whether it is worth buying a Christmas tree, etc. Evenly (this means without overload!) distribute all these worries in your schedule and look forward to the New Year with joyful anticipation!

Find time to relax

Rest is necessary in order to do more and better. Remember this when you feel the urge to stay late at work for a month or overload yourself with household chores. It’s better to rest and go into battle with new strength! This way you will quickly move forward much further.

Good luck this December and the new year! We believe in you!

New Year is coming soon. Many people associate the New Year's days with turmoil, bustle and stress. No matter how hard we try to think through everything and get it done every year, we still forget something: to congratulate someone, buy something, cook something, or decorate the house beautifully. So, in order to reduce stress levels, manage to get everything done on time and finally implement New Year’s ideas that have been put off for years, you need to prepare in advance and thoroughly. And for this you need a clear plan, or even better, a special planner that you can download, print and calmly fill out.

You can wait for the holiday, gifts and New Year's miracle... but you can create it! A holiday is, first of all, a state of mind and atmosphere! Let's create a festive mood for ourselves and around us! So, let's get ready to celebrate the New Year!

What to take care of ahead of the New Year

1. Come up with a gift for yourself.

What gift do you want to receive for the New Year? After all, in order to get something, you must first want it))) Therefore, on the eve of the New Year, you must definitely declare your desires to the Universe - write your Wish-list, a letter to Santa Claus (and ask your husband to send this letter)) As a gift for yourself, you can buy a new dress for the holiday, good cosmetics, chic lingerie, elegant earrings and jewelry, a beautiful weekly journal, a bag or shoes that you have been wanting for a long time, or.

2.Think over congratulations and gifts to loved ones.

At this point I suggest make a list of those who need to be congratulated , but on the contrary write - to whom and what to give for the New Year. You need to prepare a surprise for your husband (), order gifts for your children in advance from online stores (for example, or), and send postcards to your grandmothers by mail. By the way, postcards must be sent at least 20 days in advance, because the post office is overloaded on New Year's Eve.

My childhood New Year's memories are also associated with writing a letter to Grandfather Frost and anxiously waiting to see if the letter will reach him and whether I will receive what I had wished for)) It seemed like a real miracle that my wishes would come true, and my greatest happiness was finding the gift of my dreams and a bag of sweets under the tree in the morning and fruits. This year I will already create such a miracle for my baby and I’m even thinking about inviting Santa Claus home))

3. Home decoration.

Of course, the New Year's atmosphere at home is created by Christmas tree with toys and garlands. I have had an artificial Christmas tree for many years now, which is very convenient and environmentally friendly. But I want to add new toys - as an option, you can make them yourself. As well as garlands, snowflakes for windows, cards, holiday posters and elegant wreaths for front doors. In general, there are many options! If you like to create comfort and atmosphere in your home with the help of decor, I’ll share my ideas;)

Here are some ideas on how to decorate your home for the New Year with your own hands:

• Paper snowflakes familiar from childhood
• Drawings on windows (there are special spray cans for drawing on windows)
• Wreath of pine cones and Christmas tree branches for entrance doors
• New Year's garlands made of paper (the simplest option is a chain of colored paper)
• Christmas tree toys (papier-mâché, candies, fruits, nuts)
• Postcards with appliqués or painted in watercolors
• Gingerbread (can be decorated with icing)
• Holiday posters with photographs of all family members and the main events of the outgoing year “What was the outgoing year like?”)

A bunch of interesting ideas New Year's ideas can be found at Pinterest- here, for example, is my board with New Year's home decorating ideas.

6. Where and with whom to celebrate New Year and Christmas.

It is important to decide early where and with whom to celebrate the New Year. The most traditional option: a family New Year's Eve at home in front of the TV, with Olivier, tangerines and champagne. Although other options are also interesting - in noisy company with friends in a restaurant entertainment program, at a camp site, in a nightclub, in the forest, near the city Christmas tree or in another country. In any case, you need to decide in advance in order to have time to organize your holiday - reserve tables, invite friends, prepare gifts for them, buy tickets, book rooms, etc. And for lovers of fireworks, sparklers and firecrackers, you need to prepare in advance and buy everything you need.

Christmas for me, for example, means congratulations to my godson, a trip to my son’s godparents and a table of 12 dishes. It’s difficult to guess in advance who will come to us - so we have to plan meetings in advance so as not to miss anyone and congratulate everyone we want.

5. New Year's menu.

“What to cook for the New Year?” - This is a headache for most women. And it’s better to plan the New Year’s menu in advance too.

A significant “+” of celebrating the New Year outside the home is the lack of need to set the table and cook. And with our gastronomic traditions (the table needs to be full of dishes seen and never seen), New Year for women is not so much a holiday as a test of endurance in the kitchen. And if you have some strength left, then you can put on a dress, quickly put on makeup and sit down at the table with buzzing legs.

This is all about me in past years - and I don’t want it anymore)) And this means that this year you need to choose the optimal number of dishes, think through everything in advance and unload as much as possible on December 31st. I have a version of the holiday menu, to which I plan to add 1-2 new dishes and maybe new dessert(This is my weakness)). And, of course, it is better to make a list of food and drinks so that you can make purchases in advance if possible and avoid crowding in lines on the eve of the holiday.

1. Festive outfit, decorations, makeup.

If you believe the saying “How you celebrate the New Year is how you will spend it” , then you need to meet him beautiful! Firstly, it creates a festive mood. And secondly, I really believe that the New Year should be celebrated in beautiful clothes, joyful and positive. Therefore, you need to find in advance Nice dress, option for makeup, hair styling, manicure. And, by the way, if you are planning a trip to a beauty salon, then it’s time to make an appointment to see your favorite specialist on the desired day.

Two words about children's outfits - you need to set aside time to prepare ears for bunny boys and crowns for snowflake girls for matinees))) You need to find them in advance Christmas costumes- sew, rent, borrow from friends, buy, or your option.

1. Summarize and set goals for next year.

This point has been mandatory for me for several years: setting goals gives excellent results. Last year I developed a special planner for setting goals for the year and systematically working with them. If you subscribed to the blog news, you have already received a link to download a set of planners, and the New Year is a great reason to fill them out.

Summing up the year for me is a whole event that requires concentration, attention, and analysis. It is important to understand what the most important thing happened in the past year, what it taught me, what acquired knowledge I will take with me next year, and what is better to leave in the past forever. It’s the same with goal setting - I need time, silence for an attentive internal conversation with myself. After all, understanding what you really want is half the key to the success of implementing your plans.

Personally, I plan to give myself a separate day to work on annual goals - and it will definitely not be December 31, full of hassle and fuss. And here I will include the purchase of calendars, diaries, notebooks for next year - I really love all these things))

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1. Program for the New Year holidays

Usually New Year's weekend is a time of long vacations. And if you don’t plan your leisure time in advance, it can turn into a boring pastime.

Idea for interesting leisure during winter holidays:

• New Year's play/performance for children,
• traveling or visiting family or friends,
• a walk in the winter forest/park,
• winter active entertainment: skating, sledding, skiing, hockey.

I wrote how to spend a romantic time with your loved one.

There may be many options, but they all require preparation and preliminary organization.

To ensure that this post does not go in vain and is truly useful to you, I have prepared for you a brief summary in the form of a table that you can download and fill out to effectively plan your holiday.

Download for free step by step plan preparations for the New Year are possible.

I wish you easy preparation for the holidays and a festive atmosphere for you!

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Wishing you fabulous holidays,

Sasha Leonova