Zhenya woke up early today. It was an ordinary day, which did not seem to foresee turbulent events. But today, she decided to cheat on her husband, as she was tired of loneliness. She has been married for almost five years. She and her husband have a lovely son, Yegorushka, whom she loves more than life. And this is the only thing that keeps her from divorce. Her husband Igor is a successful businessman. Who is constantly busy. He is ten years older than her. But he can’t calm down. There are already legends about his betrayal in their city.
Zhenya is almost thirty years old, although she looks great, but in her soul she has emptiness, internal discomfort, as she constantly feels that her husband is cheating on her. And so she decided to cheat. She called her friend Verka, agreed with her to come to her by twelve in the afternoon, and would have taken a bottle of Martini with me. After I agreed with Verka, I called my mother and agreed with her that she would take Yegorka until tomorrow.
She took a bath and lay near the TV with Yegorka until Verka's arrival. After turning on Yegorushka's favorite cartoons, she and Verka went to the kitchen. They had been friends with Verka since school. They were completely different from her. Verka has never been an exemplary girl. Always cheated at Zhenya's school. And she treated her husband's infidelities philosophically. Since she had several lovers. She told Zhenya that her Vadim and your Igor went to their dacha, and they had a merry party there. Zhenya shared with Verka about her desire to cheat on her husband. Verka supported her, saying: she finally saw the light.
After drinking a bottle of Martini, she asked Verka to stay at home, while she would go to her mother and leave Yegorka. Hearing Verka's consent, she went to collect Yegorka. Leaving the house with Yegorka, they first went into the store. Zhenya bought a bottle of a skate, and fulfilled all the whims of Yegorka. Mom lived not far from them. Therefore, they reached quickly. Going to her mother, she left Yegorka, she told the find that she and Verka were going for a walk today. Mom supported her. Since she had been telling her for a long time that she needed to get out of the house, and not to sit at home all the time, like her, and wait for her husband while he walked up. Hearing understanding from her mother, she perked up and went home to continue a heart-to-heart conversation with Verka.
Arriving home, she turned on the music center, and invited Verka to go into the hall. Drink brandy and watch the new porn movie she just bought. Verka agreed. The viewing of the porn film was stormy. She and Verka did not even notice how they sentenced a bottle of cognac, as they were pretty excited. Verka suggested to Zhenya, let's go continue the libation of alcohol in one of our favorite bars. For an argument, Verka added that you can hook someone there. Zhenya agreed. Since today she decided to change her husband for the first time in her life. She did not know why today, most likely she was tired of his nonsense and constant betrayal, because a woman cannot be fooled. Although, during these almost five years of their life together, he learned to tell such tales that he could already publish his works.
Calling a taxi to the house, they went out with Verka. When they reached the disco bar, they briskly walked inside to watch a porn film, as they, without agreeing with Verka, began to look at the men in this institution. After ordering a bottle of vodka and some meat, they went to the table. Verka was not alone for long. She took courtship young man sitting at the next table, and twenty minutes later moved to him. For a long time, Zhenya did not dare to respond to the acquaintances that were offered to her; inside she had some kind of remorse. And then she saw him, it was Mishka. The bear was a very handsome guy. Who was only two years older than her. He courted her before her marriage. But she chose Igor, because she believed that Mishka would constantly cheat on her, since all the girls around were running after him. When Mishka came up to her table, she even got up, because she really wanted it. Mishka noticed this and sat down at her table. By this time Verka had already left the bar. After talking about life, Zhenya learned that Mishka is still not married. As Mishka said, I still haven't found that one. After drinking vodka with Mishka, Zhenya felt uncomfortable, and she herself suggested to Mishka that he accompany her. When they left the bar, Zhenya suggested that they walk him. There was a forest belt ten minutes from the disco bar. Zhenya has been wanting to cheat on her husband for a month already. She didn't know if she still loved Mishka. But she wanted to cheat on her husband. When they began to approach the forest belt, Zhenya invited Mishka to go there, Mishka agreed. When they entered there, Zhenya approached Mishka, and they began to kiss. During passionate kisses, Zhenya whispered to Mishka that she wanted to please him. She unbuttoned his fly, pointed her cute fingers inside, and without a word sat down on her knees. She did it passionately, and like a hungry beast. That Mishka did not even notice how he finished her right in her cute mouth. Zhenya, satisfied with this, told Mishka, and now take me from behind. Bear obediently obeyed. It was Zhenya's first anal sex, but she did not tell Mishka about it. Mishka felt it when they started doing it. Zhenya, during anal sex, bit her lips all the time, so as not to show it. Everything was like a dream. The only thing that she remembered when he asked, Zhen and where to end? She told him to cum in my mouth again. He agreed. After that, for the third time, she achieved an eruption that flowed down her face, satisfied and humiliated, she began to gather. When she got there, she told Mishka not to accompany her, and would no longer seek a meeting with her. Coming out of the forest belt, she stopped a taxi and he drove her home. Entering home, she barely made it to the bed, and fell into bed without undressing.
In the morning she was woken up by her beloved husband, who, after betrayal, was always affectionate and always with flowers. He began to tell her another fairy tale, about the business of the case, but she did not listen to him. After telling the tale, he only asked her why, did she fall asleep in her clothes? Hearing in response that Verka was visiting yesterday, and they drank a little with her. Satisfied with the answer, he thought about his own. Zhenya told her favorite "storyteller" to kiss me. He kissed her. During the kiss, she ran over her head and thought. My favorite goat.

The most important thing is to be ready for this in order to survive the betrayal of her husband.
When I got married, I was absolutely sure that this would definitely not happen to me. Therefore, I did not think about how to survive the betrayal of my husband.

My husband came across as a loyal man. He grew up in a family in which his parents respected family traditions and loved each other. It seemed that the question of how to survive the betrayal of her husband in this family was never raised. How it really happened ... I don't know.

And I, a sociable girl, and until I stopped the choice on my chosen one, talked with many young people and was popular with the opposite sex. My mother was worried that the moment would come when my faithful husband would bore me, and I would find myself a lover in search of adventure.

In addition, we naively believe: “Love is a constant thing. And such a unique and beloved me will never be betrayed. A man simply cannot do this, because he loves me so much. And if he dares to commit such an act, then I will never forgive him. I will not think about how to live with my husband after infidelity - suitcases outside the door and the like. "

So we reason until we are properly covered by this event. And when this happens, then thoughts completely lose all logic. It seems to us that the world has collapsed, it will go to another, no longer loves me, etc. Insidious thoughts of suicide come. This happens to almost every woman, if at the time of her husband's betrayal, she still loves him.

So it was with me. First thoughts: "THIS IS NOT HAPPENING TO ME !!!, It just can't be!" And then: “How could he betray me ?! Such a close and dear person, why live now? " etc.

Cheating how to survive it?

When we love, we do not want to think that such a moment may come. But nevertheless, unfortunately, this happens almost (the word is almost purely rhetorical) with everyone. And if this has not happened to you yet, then maybe you just don't know about it?

My husband has been cheating on me for two years. And I had no idea about it, although there were plenty of signs of treason. I believed him so much that I did not even admit the thought that betrayal was possible. And then came the moment when I had to think: "How to survive the betrayal of her husband?" "?"

So, what if you find out that your husband has cheated?

1) Firstly, discard thoughts about the hopelessness of the situation, suicide and the like nonsense.

Of course, you will have to suffer, without this we simply cannot women. But it is not worth prolonging the period of depression. Suffering in this case are needed in order to survive the pain and start thinking logically: How to live after your husband's betrayal. It is very good if you have in your arsenal good friend or a mother who at this moment will not scold the light of your unfaithful person, but will concentrate her efforts on your merits and will be able to instill in you a sense of self-confidence.

2) Secondly, to understand how regrettable it is that most women face such situations (with the exception of those who have not yet married). And all your friends and acquaintances, either experienced it, or they still have to go through it. And if you see happy married couple, then this does not mean at all that there were no betrayals in this family. It's just that a woman is faced with treason and the question of how to survive it is not accepted and somehow ashamed to speak. We are used to bragging about our achievements and the attention of men, and we are not at all tuned in to tell all our acquaintances that at some point we felt unnecessary and unloved. So do not think that you are the only one going through this grief.

3) I also advise you to discard thoughts of suitcases. What can you achieve by divorce? Well, suppose they got divorced because they betrayed, but what guarantee is there that the other will not do the same?

And then what is the point of changing the situation? Well, unless you are completely disappointed in men and decided to live alone.

Will you be happy when you are alone? Ask yourself this question before chopping off the shoulder.

4) Hide from him for a while. And do not worry that this time he will be with his mistress. First, if this is true, change to this moment you can do nothing, but most likely the husband will be so upset by your disappearance that he will have no time for his mistress. During this time, you will be able to suffer in the distance, reflect on how to live after your husband's betrayal and not show him the full depth of your grief. A face tear-stained and tormented by suffering and sleepless nights is not the best trump card in this situation.

5) Having suffered enough, try to look at this situation from the other side. Yes, you were betrayed - very unpleasant, painful, but this did not make you worse. You are just as attractive, smart and beautiful woman, as before. Some individuals just stopped noticing it.

Imagine that life is testing you - can you or not, not only cope with this situation, but also come out of it as a winner ?!

6) The old Russian musical "The Bat" helped me a lot. I advise everyone, women who are faced with her husband's betrayal, to watch this movie and try to look at the situation with humor... The heroine of the film was not only able to answer the question: How to live after her husband's betrayal, she intrigued her man so much that she made him fall in love again without memory ... fall in love with his wife!

7) In no case do not allow the thought that the mistress is better than you, the younger is more beautiful, etc. She's no better - I assure you! It's just that your man always sees her prepared for the meeting, that is, fully armed and naively believes that she is so attractive and understanding all the time. And even more so do not try to ask your husband stupid questions like: "Is she better than me?" "Is she younger than me?"

Be sure that YOU are better, more attractive, kinder, smarter, etc. If you believe in this, the man will have no choice!

8) Now to the battle! A man is a conqueror, whatever one may say. Make him worry not about the fact that it can be decoded by you, but about the fact that now YOU can elude him. Establish YOUR RULES in this situation!

Let him understand that you are a woman who is liked by so many men!

You are beautiful, attractive, intelligent and worthy of love. Now let him worry: “Will you be faithful to him?”, “What will happen if now there is treason on your part? How to survive it? " Just do not try to assure him that you will definitely change in return.

This game needs to be played more subtly! He should know that you are a faithful wife, but due to the fact that a certain event happened, now she is not sure that you want to live the rest of your life with him.

You are in doubt - this is a normal reaction in this situation.

And around ... !!!

So many fans who are ready to dispel your doubts. In their favor, of course. And if earlier you resolutely suppressed all kinds of courtship on their part, trying not to upset your loved one. Now ... Why not take a gorgeous bouquet of roses and bring it home? This is just a sign of attention, nothing more. Why not have a phone call with a male colleague, of course. At the same time, laughing and discussing topics that do not concern your husband. Why not go to a bachelorette party? Let the husband suffer: "Is this really a bachelorette party?"

A wise thought on this topic:

You know, I racked my brains before! I thought - where are you? - with whom you are?

Now everything has changed! I have become different!

Where I am? who am I with?

Play, but don't flirt. He must remember how he conquered you in his youth. You are a faithful, cool attractive woman !!!

Such a woman to be fought for!

9) Under any circumstances, do not bow your head, have self-esteem, and then soon you will see and begin to enjoy how your husband will again begin to win your attention. Torment him to his heart's content!

People do such incredible things, proving that EVERYTHING is POSSIBLE!

Treason, how to survive it? How to get your husband's love back? - what little things they are ... you will do it !!!

One of the members of our club faced her husband's betrayal and shared her stories of victory on the pages of Svoipravila magazine.

Alexandra was not only able to survive this difficult psychological situation, she won a complete victory by returning and making him worry.

In short, it is very easy to destroy a marriage, and if you need details, then sit back.

Back in the eighth grade, I fell in love with a classmate whose name I will not name. But let it be Natalia. It was strong love bordering on obsession. Probably the most strong feelings I experienced it in the eighth grade. I have never fallen in love with anyone more strongly. And in terms of duration ... this is the most powerful love. We met right up to last call... They talked about how it would be nice to start living together after school. But I graduated from school, and did not have time to enter the university - I ended up in the army. Two years of service did their dastardly job - Natalya did not wait for me and married another.

For 15 years of living together with my wife, I have never cheated on her, there was not even such a thought. Recently, either the devil pulled, or the alcohol was to blame for everything, I'm not looking for excuses, but I went to the left.

No wonder the Irish have a proverb that you shouldn't brag about the size of your wallet, the beauty of your wife and the taste of your beer.

We have been living with my husband for 20 years. We have two children, 15 and 18 years old. There is complete harmony in the family. Everyone believes that we have an ideal family, because quarrels and conflicts in our house are very rare. There has never been a crisis in a relationship before, but lately I began to notice that my husband has changed.

Girls, Hello everyone. I'll tell you very briefly. I cheated on my husband, cheated, and even out loud it’s scary to tell someone about it. The other day, a friend (she is a family) invited her husband and her to visit her, her youngest son turned 5 years old. We gladly accepted the offer, bought a gift for the child and came. (my husband and I have no children). At the moment, her brother moved in with a friend (they have a 4-room apartment). I saw my brother for the second time in my life, but I have known him for more than a year. Brother, a pleasant, sociable person, we immediately found with him mutual language... My husband talked more with a friend's husband, and I chatted with my brother. Naturally, we drank, at the end of the evening, my husband completely relaxed (he very rarely drinks) and we took him to bed, the four of us stayed, soon the friend's husband went to bed, and then she did. My brother and I continued to communicate, drank, laughed, and then I notice that he strokes my hand. I pulled it back, went to the balcony, he followed me. I will digress a little and tell you the main thing. A friend's brother is my type, every woman has her own type of men that she likes. I like tall brunettes, with brown eyes... And the facial features are exactly what I like. In my youth, I had a serious affair with a guy, and my friend's brother turned out to be a copy of him, even in communication. My husband, in no way fits the type that I like, but he took me with his actions, and now he is the dearest person for me. AND I BETRAYED HIM. So, back to the story, he followed me onto the balcony, lit a cigarette, and hugged me. And I did not to resist, I felt so good. So calm, so warm. And even the thought that her beloved husband was sleeping in the room did not prevent this. He kissed, I replied, it is so indescribable, like when you wait for something for a long time, and it happens. He smoked, we returned to the room, turned on the movie and continued kissing. And then it all happened. Then he hugged me, I said that I need to go to my husband's room, or else we'll fall asleep. I spent the night in a room with my husband. Waking up in the morning, I remembered all the moments with a trembling in my body (and I still remember) and I was not even ashamed, but when my husband began to hug me in the morning and kiss me with such love, I burst into tears. He says: What are you doing? And I cry and cannot answer, I referred to a headache. We left. The next day, we had to go to a friend's house on business (she and her husband did not know anything), his brother was not there, he came later, and the peeping game began. He smiles mysteriously. Girls, and you know what's the worst? I want him again (this is not uterine rabies), I just want this particular person, just his touch, not even sex, but just him. But I will not leave my husband in any case, even if there was an opportunity to be with my friend's brother. I won't tell my husband anything. I just want to hear the opinion, I thought this could not happen to me ...