I want to meet a German man. Dating Germans for serious relationships or marriage. How to guarantee successful dating

Are you tired of being alone and looking for a man for a serious relationship? The desire to love and be loved is common to every person! As often happens, your personal life suffers due to lack of free time or precious years were wasted in a relationship that had no future. Nowadays, we no longer need to wait for fate to find us: be it a chance meeting on the street, on public transport, or meeting a new colleague at work. Modern technologies provide a huge number of opportunities to meet new people: from your own country or from abroad. After all, you don’t need a visa or a plane ticket to access the Internet;-) You can easily communicate with a man living a couple of minutes away from you or with a man from another country living on another continent. Therefore, you need to take the device of your personal life into own hands and register on . For example, on dating site for German men! ;-)

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Men from Germany: what are they like?

There is no ready-made formula that would tell or show us what German men are like. However, German-speaking men (Austrians, Swiss) share some common traits.
Responsible attitude towards creating a family and having children. For, the question of starting a family will be raised only when he has an appropriate material base (job and stable income) that allows him to support his future wife and joint children.
Practicality: the German will not build “castles in the air.” Instead, he will soberly assess the situation and his capabilities so as not to let himself and the woman he loves down.
Patience and determination. Most men understand that obtaining a visa and other documents are purely formalities, and the goal - a happy future with the woman they love - justifies the time and effort spent.
Pleasant appearance and well-groomed appearance. take care of themselves and take care of their appearance.
German men are very romantic and believe in love and family union for life.

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How to meet a German? What visa-free places are they guaranteed to live in? What do they pay attention to when meeting them? And where to go for a German if you are already in Germany! Everything is in order in this article, and watch the video for useful and fun life hacks and phrases!

Why are you learning German?


This question is heard more than once by anyone who has decided to seriously study the language of Heine and Goethe. However, most of us do not learn German in order to read the classics in the original. Some people need German for work, some are planning a trip to Germany in the summer, and some - no less - dream of marrying a German!

Wow, you tell me, where can I get him, this German? After all, there are only Russian-speaking personalities around, and the German, he sits quietly in his Deutschland, drinks German beer and watches the match with Dortmund or Bayern. Where can I find him, a German, how can I get to know him? Mm…?

Don’t worry, dear ladies (not ladies, don’t worry either), because we will now tell you everything in detail. And you remember!

Where where?

First of all, let's remember: to the question “where?” We answer not “in Karaganda”, but “on the Internet”!

Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and others social media- in our era of global Internetization and the widespread fashion for smartphones, it is strange to not be registered on at least one of these sites.

SECRET: every fifth average German is single and is actively looking for the lady of his heart or lady... for a pleasant time together.


In 2013, the German Ministry of Statistics conducted a survey among 11,600 young people over the age of 18 and found that 31% of respondents had already used the services of dating sites and marriage agencies on the Internet at least once. 22% of respondents admitted that they had already thought about it and would probably register on one of these sites in the near future.

The survey also shows that men first of all pay attention to the photo, and then to the age, height, weight of the future chosen one on the Internet, while women also look first of all at the photo, and then at the profession. It is also noteworthy that women most often choose men of their own age or older, and men are most attracted to young girls or ladies at least younger in age, which, in principle, suits each other.


Dating websites

You can search the Internet for dating sites in German using queries Partnersuche, Singlebörse. The top ten most popular include such portals as eDarling, ElitePartner, Partnersuche.de, Parship.de, FriendScout24.de as well as neu.de

1. Post a breathtaking photo in a bikini, draw Blue eyes in photoshop
2. Fill out information about yourself - that’s it, the fishing rod is cast, we’re waiting for the fish.

Germans love to meet beautiful Russian girls on the Internet; often such acquaintances end in long correspondence and the girl’s trip to Germany, but then you already know everything yourself. On such sites there are also many single ladies aged 35+ who cannot find a partner of the same level in everyday life.

FACT: According to a study by the University of Hamburg, two thirds of women over the age of 30 do not have a regular partner.

It is noteworthy that the higher social status and a woman’s level of education, the greater her chances of remaining single as she ages. The highest percentage of “loners” is among researchers and university professors.

The Internet provides enormous opportunities and chances not only in terms of searching for information, but also in communicating. Use this chance, do not miss the opportunity to make new contacts and acquaintances on the Internet. Maybe the next chat interlocutor will later turn out to be your one and only chosen one? Or maybe you will find your love on a dating site? Many of them, for example, eDarling, work on the principle of matching interests- you will be asked to answer various questions about yourself, revealing your tastes, preferences and interests, as well as fill out information about the prospective partner - age, status, views on life and family, etc. Well, then, as in a fairy tale, from the database of registered users you will be offered a list of candidates who best match your profile.


In Germany

For those who consider dating on the Internet a frivolous matter, we’ll tell you where else to catch a German. The most logical option is, of course, in Germany! But no matter how logical this option may be, it is also one of the most expensive and unreliable options.

Why? - Germans for the most part are not used to meeting girls on the streets, on the subway or bus, as well as in other in public places, and dating at parties is more often considered as a one-night-stand without consequences and obligations in terms of continuing communication.

Where then do Germans most often meet their soulmate? Most people answer this question - at school, at university, among friends, at work. Someone introduced someone to someone, they already had mutual friends or acquaintances, they had been communicating in the same circle of friends for a long time, and that’s how it developed and happened.

So if you came to Germany with the goal of meeting your future German husband, you should not count on a stream of interested glances and compliments from the very first second of your stay. In Germany, taking German language courses, the chance of meeting some nice Turkish or Italian is much higher than meeting a German. Therefore, the only option left is to study and work, or to look for a “bringing together” situation, such as a football match or a sports competition, a concert - when everyone is united by a wave of positive mood and people are a little liberated, so that the distance between your German and the outside world is somewhat reduced.

Or look for situations where the distance between you and the German will decrease due to external circumstances - for example, during a three-hour flight from Moscow to Berlin in the cabin of an airplane. In such a situation, why not start an unobtrusive small talk with your burgher neighbor? Or why not sit down with a German sitting alone on the train, first, of course, asking if the seat next to him is free. Such chances should be used, at a minimum, to practice spoken German.


Holidays in German

However, there is another option to meet a German in his “native environment”, and nowhere else, but in a “German” hotel in Mallorca or Lloret del Mar. These Spanish resorts have long been considered the number one holiday destination for German youth when it comes to sun, beach, parties, dating, girls.

German students and graduates as a group book tickets and go to warm their sides under the southern sun, drink sangria and sleep for half a day on the beach after noisy parties. Germans can always be recognized by the fact that in the morning they take seats by the pool in advance, and in the evening they make more noise at the bar than dance and flirt with girls. So such a moment must be used - which German’s heart will remain indifferent to the beautiful Natalia, who so carefully rubbed sunscreen onto his back?..


In Russia

But not only abroad, but also at home, you can easily and with dignity meet a foreigner. First, let's think about where in Russia you can meet foreigners? - Of course, the most common option is in Moscow or St. Petersburg.

Most tourists come to big cities European part of Russia, either makes a tour along the Golden Ring, or goes to travel along the Trans-Siberian Railway. From here - at the airport, on a train, subway, bus or on the street - when you see a confused tourist standing with a backpack and a map in his hands, you should not be shy, but, with a sweet smile, offer your help. Working as a tourist guide, flight attendant or receptionist in a hostel or hotel is an ideal option for those who only dream of meeting a foreigner.

Couchsurfers

IN last years There has been a huge increase in the number of people registered on couchsurfing, the world's largest travel community. Couchsurfers - this is what those who travel, staying not in hotels or inns, but with other couchsurfers, call themselves, and also host guests from other countries.

Couchsurfing is a unique opportunity to meet not only Germans, but generally people from all over the world, of any nationality and profession, and learn a lot about the world. Those who do not have the opportunity to accommodate guests at home choose the status "Coffee or drink"- this way you can meet in the center, stroll through tourist spots, and show the city “from the inside.” Dating through couchsurfing, as practice shows, is very intense and sometimes couchsurfers even remain close friends, visit each other, and travel together.

According to the story of one of my friends, who met her future husband this way, staying overnight with her friend, who was to be visited the next day by two German couchsurfers traveling along the Trans-Siberian Railway - this story can be used to make films and write memoirs. He came to her again two months later, having traveled all over Russia, passing through China and Mongolia, returning to her. Then they traveled together for three months across hundreds of miles and kilometers, across countries and continents, and very soon she was leaving for him, now for good.

Businessmen

For those who prefer to stay “closer to the ground” and who are far from the romance of travel, who are business people, numerous opportunities are open to you in terms of business contacts with Germans. Germany is Russia's largest trading partner; every year hundreds of exhibitions and conferences are held in Russia on issues of further cooperation.

In such an environment you can make acquaintances yourself high level and who knows, maybe some German leader has been looking for a new secretary for a long time and not only?...

Volunteers

It is customary among Germans not to go straight to university after school, but to do something social year, or travel, and often both together. Therefore, every year more and more Germans go to Russia to do a good deed, help society, learn the Russian language and look for the answer to the question - what does she mean, this mysterious Russian soul. They come for six months or a year, often teach German at universities and language centers of the Goethe Institute, talk about Germany and communicate with the Russian-speaking public.

If there is such an organization in your city, be sure to go to discussions and meetings, this is an excellent opportunity to hear “live German speech” and practice spoken German. And then, you see, it will work out new story, about which you can write memoirs and tell your children and friends.

Epilogue

Stories about how the prince found his princess have long become fairy tales not only for children, but also for adults. In a world where princes wear business suits and ties and drive around in Mercedes instead of white horses, the princesses have to adapt to the new rules of this world and go out of the castle into the world. Princesses now not only bat their eyes innocently and read smart books, they also diligently teach foreign languages and they believe that somewhere out there, behind the seven hills (visas and borders), in the distant kingdom of the thirtieth state (in the European Union), their prince is wandering around the world (sitting on an Ikea sofa). And now he will pick up his laptop and go online, and maybe that’s how they will find each other...

Or maybe they will meet by chance at the airport and mix up their suitcases... Or they will meet at the wedding of their best friends, who once found each other in the same way - when they least expected it...

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When meeting foreigners, women and men often make a common mistake: they behave with them in the same way as with their compatriots. But everyone different traditions that must be adhered to. Dating in Germany has its own subtleties. How to meet a German for Serious relationships?

How to meet a German

It all depends on the man of what age the girl is counting on. If we are talking about completely young man- a student or a young man under 30 years old, then everything here is approximately the same as in any other country in the world. But since many people want to meet a German for marriage, they should focus on a mature person, and he is already becoming conservative and practical.

You won’t be able to flirt with a German anywhere - it is believed that there are “decent” and suitable places for this, such as nightclubs, discos, and “speed dating” parties. Therefore, it is worth thinking about where to meet a German for a serious relationship. By the way, practical Germans consider them a wonderful way to find a soul mate. And although this is not entirely clear to Slavic girls, it is worth accepting this method and learning to make an impression from the first minutes.

The statistics are inexorable: single men in Germany are not ready to spend a lot of time on starting a relationship, so such dates are very popular among them.

Flirting culture is not something that Germans are all about. But if you just come up and invite the man you like to dinner (but just invite him, and not offer to invite yourself), then the chances of consent will be very high. After this, of course, you will need to wait for initiative on his part, but this method is very good for making acquaintances. The Germans see nothing wrong with a woman taking the initiative: in terms of relationships, they have real, not regulated, equality.

It is also important to understand that practical German men believe this: if a woman flirts, it means she is interested in meeting a specific man. Flirting for the sake of flirting is not encouraged, a German may consider it frivolous, and practical burghers do not want to have anything to do with frivolous people. This is also important to consider

Oktoberfest in Munich

How to meet a German on a holiday? After all, this is a good reason and another simple and easy way where to meet a German. Here, in general, everything is extremely simple: there is the “right place”, the atmosphere and, most importantly, the opportunity to signal a potential suitor. It is enough to tie a bow on a traditional dress on left side to attract those who want to treat the lady with a glass of beer. It’s also nice that you can say a polite “no” to a boyfriend you don’t like - and he won’t be persistent. This pleasantly distinguishes Germans from Slavic men, who never consider that the answer they were given is final.

In addition to Oktoberfest in Germany, there are other good ones in Germany where you can meet a German for a serious relationship

Online dating in Germany

Registering on a dating site in this country is not considered something shameful. It's just that men and women really don't have time to study personal life. Therefore, they, generally showing maximum pragmatism, look for their soul mate on the World Wide Web, taking it for granted. And this is a great chance to find the right person, if the woman does not yet live in Germany.

Good chances of making friends on Badoo or Tinder
On such resources you mainly meet older people. Usually these are hard-working middle-income burghers who want to find an equal partner and mistress of the house.

Dating in Germany for marriage on a dating site is also quite possible. Of course, finding romance with this approach is difficult, but there won’t be much of it in a relationship with a German man, so you should prepare for it. As well as the fact that he will not pay for flights and accommodation, and checks at restaurants will most likely have to be made for two after the second date.

We offer free dating with Germans for girls! Dating site for foreigners website works for single girls from Eastern Europe who want to meet a German man for a serious relationship and. Men from Western Europe pay for the opportunity to meet girls.

Brought up in conditions of freedom and equality, German men see their chosen one as an equal partner. They are ready to share all the joys and hardships of life together equally. When he decides to throw in his lot with someone, he carefully calculates his possibilities, and does not promise the impossible and does not build “castles in the air.” Many people cast their lot in with girls from countries former USSR, because they see in them a manifestation of sincere care and love. Slavic girls attract men with their natural beauty, grooming and thriftiness. In addition, men from Western Europe like it when women can do a lot on their own and easily learn new skills. And women, in turn, find in the Germans not only material support and a guarantee for the future, but also a truly partner-like attitude towards household responsibilities and everyday issues.

There is no need to be afraid and put off your decision until later - go ahead and start searching for your companion!

After all, by starting communication on a dating site with Germans, you may become one step closer to your cherished dream: happy life with beloved man!

1. A colossal number of users. Young beauties and wise women, creative people and extravagant businesswomen, art connoisseurs and movie fans, blond and dark-haired - every man can find a worthy girl on LovePlanet.

2. Modernized partner selection system. It involves choosing a candidate based on various criteria: age and body shape, temperament and character traits, hobbies and outlook on life. An advanced search allows you to meet a German woman who is pleasant to look at and interesting to talk to.

3. Fantastic statistics. Most LovePlanet users turn on nice meeting you. They not only communicate in the virtual space, but also make appointments in the real world.

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