Adding one important event to another, it often looks like the cherry on a cupcake, which constantly strives to fall into the cream. Of course, if we are talking about the birth of a child, it is unlikely that anything can be adjusted, but you can propose marriage (or get married) on any other day.
For many people, holidays are associated with certain emotions, memories, and expectations. It doesn’t make much sense to mix additional emotions into them.
In addition, a marriage proposal (even without a ring or knee, just during a conversation) is an intimate, personal moment that should not be disguised behind New Year's tinsel, birthday balloons or the energy of another holiday. Surely you would like to hear these words on a day that will be special only for the two of you, and not for the whole country or the world.
A marriage proposal (even without a ring or a knee, just during a conversation) is an intimate, personal moment.
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The same goes for proposals during a concert or a football match. Celebs sometimes take advantage of this to announce their engagement publicly right on the field/stage, but that’s why they are stars. And “let’s get married” from seat 16 in the 19th row of the far sector, when fans are shouting around, looks pretty stupid.
Remember how uncomfortable it was in childhood for your friends who happened to be born on December 31 or March 8? Of course, it was convenient to celebrate your birthday on a guaranteed day off, but it was always scary to think that your parents would bring you one gift instead of two. Now we are not talking about gifts, but the situation is similar: important dates overlap each other.
Finally, your relationship may not last for the rest of your life, then the New Year will remain a holiday in the style of: “Oh, I’m sorry that you broke up, and Happy New Year!” Even if friends have the tact (or memory) not to mention this event, the holiday will still be spoiled.
Therefore, if you really want your gentleman to propose beautifully, let him wait until the end of the holidays! Well, if, on the contrary, you have always dreamed of combining two types of magic in one, then it’s time to push him towards this.
Love the feeling is inexplicable; it still remains a mystery how she appears and how long she lives. Many people want to find out whether each person loves equally or whether some love more, some less; there are claims that this sincere, tender, charming, sometimes bitter feeling does not exist at all. Some are sure that sympathy and sexual attraction are love. How many people, so many opinions. But despite all controversial statements, there are still couples who enjoy every moment spent together and strive to stop time. The flow of life, of course, cannot be stopped, and passes year after year, but sincerely in love couples are simply obliged to try to create a strong, prosperous family, because only happy parents can teach their children to enjoy the little things, resist sorrows and appreciate the extraordinary opportunity to be on planet Earth. A man and a woman are created to be one and complement each other - you cannot go against nature, many do not get along together or marriage becomes an unbearable torture. But that comes later - everyone has their own fate!
Do romantic marriage proposal moment, the unexpected is very difficult. Many men are simply sure that women need expensive gifts and generally only money. Of course, the material side is important, but representatives of the fair sex who sincerely love do not expect castles and heaps of gold, they rejoice in attention, tenderness, understanding and affection.
Coming soon New Year, many will spend it in noisy company, others at a rich table in the presence of their closest and dearest people. A man who wants to give his heart to his chosen one and create a real family can make an unforgettable New Year, which will be the first step - a marriage proposal. Moreover, there is no need for huge expenses at all.
Decorated apartment, all sparkling with garlands, the sparkling shine of tinsel everywhere, the smell of a Christmas tree, comfortably located in a secluded place in the apartment, the clock is calmly ticking and the fussy groom is waiting for the arrival of his chosen one. A girl who doesn’t even suspect that tomorrow she will be a real bride, preens herself and gets ready for a holiday with her beloved.
This moment... the doorbell rings. Chosen One, surprised by the absence of friends, glances at the worried strong man, who incoherently selects words and tries to explain that he decided to make a surprise and his loved ones will spend this New Year together.
Pleasant music, a beautifully set table, a low-alcohol drink, warm hugs and a feeling of peace, chimes, a glass of champagne... Hurray! Kisses, congratulations, and now gifts. Future groom beret gentle hand beloved and leads to the Christmas tree, and under it there is a box, the girl frantically opens it, a gift (reasoning that she also prepared something), and there is a ring and the words that he only needs her throughout his life and he wants to see her as his wife. Such a moment will remain a pleasant memory for the rest of your life, and in the event of further troubles it will smooth out grievances. I would like to wish all the people on Earth sincere love and happiness in this hectic life.
New Year is a time of miracles, magic and fulfillment of the most cherished desires. For some, the most desirable thing will be receiving a gift, for others a successful end to the session, and for the most romantic girls it will be a marriage proposal from a loved one. Surely your girlfriend also dreams of such a gift. But for everything to go flawlessly, young people need to have courage and patience. If you have decided to take such a responsible step, then this article will help you propose to the lady of your heart so that she definitely says “Yes!”
The classic option is to propose marriage while the chimes are striking. However, you need to prepare for such an event a little more carefully than for the New Year. Take charge of preparing the holiday.
First of all, decide where you will celebrate the New Year - at home, in a cafe or restaurant, visiting your parents or friends. It's better if it's a joint decision. Therefore, ask your significant other where she wants to celebrate New Year's Eve and find a compromise solution.
If you are alone with each other
If you decide to be alone with each other at home, then you should work on a romantic atmosphere.
1. First of all, decorate the Christmas tree. Decorate it with toys, garlands and tinsel, and on top of all the decorations hang these five exciting words: “Will you marry me?” This way, you will not only create a romantic atmosphere, but also add confidence to yourself. If you do not want to reveal the intrigue, then you can use a ring box in the form New Year's toys. You need to place it on the Christmas tree and ask your friend to find the “special” decoration. Or, at the right moment, simply remove the desired toy from the New Year’s beauty.
3. So that the moment of marriage proposal does not remain behind the scenes, install the camera, having previously selected the desired shooting point. This way, you will have the very first exciting moment of your life together captured, without unnecessary people (photographer or cameraman) disturbing you.
4. Think in advance of the words of love that you will say at the moment of your marriage proposal. Rehearse well so you don't forget the words at the right time. Remember, even if not everything is perfect, your beloved girl will tell you the cherished “Yes!”
You can propose marriage not only at home. Invite your girlfriend to take a walk around the evening city. As a rule, there will be few people in the evening, and you will be calmer. The romantic atmosphere will be added by the light of evening lanterns, which softly dissipates in large snowdrifts. Ask the girl to close her eyes and look away. Write sentences in the snow and give them a ring.
An unusual proposal can be made at the cinema. Invite a girl to some New Year's melodrama or comedy. Arrange in advance with the staff to launch your marriage proposal at the end of the film. Shoot your proposal video in the studio with the help of professional cameramen. Calculate the minutes when the film will come to an end. Warn your loved one that you need to leave. When the movie ends and she sees your proposal, come up with a bouquet of roses and ask the question: “Do you agree to marry me?”